Две мысли

There can be admiration without attraction. Then, I think, there also can be attraction without admiration -- not for me, though.

It's fairly easy not to take people for granted -- in general. But "general" consist of these separate moments when you're busy thinking about something else, distracted, upset or working hard on coming up with clever ideas -- too hard to pay much attention to whoever is next to you. And then think, "Oops! I did it again!.."